Nickname - gd or bad??

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Before I share my personal opinion, let me first share my own personal experience.. During my secondary school times, I not too sure why I was given this nick: Ikan.Up till now is still a mystery to me.. By the way, this nick was given by a group of boys in my class. But anyway I  dun reali bother much cuz they dun seem to have any bad intention to hurt me. I feel that I am qutie well-liked by them. Cuz I was like the centre of attraction.. LOL. Slowly the rest of my class even my female classmate also start to slowly call me that.

Like any other gal, I hate ppl say I am fat but yes during sec.sch I was indeed plump. I rem there was one day when I was wearing my gal guide uniform, there is a group of boys commenting on me n say I look so ugly n fat still want join gal guide. I hate tat kinda comments and I feel that they are just brunch of idoits who only care about looks.

So to me, it reali depends on the nickname given by other ppl. If is just a harmless nickname and ppl call you is because they feel closer to you when call u or they like you as a person, dun take it too hard. But if those ppl who just to make fun of you, just think that they are not mature enuff. You can just ignore them will do. As dealing with such people, most of the time is either you will get harm by them or you are just wasting your time with them while you could have use the time to do something meaningful. 

For those people who may tink they are just purely give people nickname for fun and self-entertainment. They are damn so selfish people. You make never know your actions is giving people hurt within and can cause impact on that person. That's why I strongly believe in karma as what goes around comes around. You treat people in such manner, beware that people will do the same to you.

More importantly I feel some hurts can also strengthen a person at the same time. To be able to protect oneself and careful in knowing people. Just like me, I used to be bully by some people. Now I know when to be heart hard to some people if neccessary, and protect myself from being hurt by some people. When there is a  time to stand out for oneself, just do it. Other might say you are wasting your time and the other party can dun even bother with you, but I think likewise, at least you did something to protect yourself and did not let yourselves down.